I have this theory, that
people in the south have the potential to be thinner in relation to the north.
And it’s not just the heat. In fact, my theory runs counter to the idea that
the south is flawed since the heat makes people slow. What is important is the
light - when it is light out after work I want to do so many things. I go for
walks or just sit in the yard with my feet in the grass while I read a book
with my feet in the grass. But once that sun starts staying away longer and
longer, the less and less I want to do. It gets dark and then cold and all I
want to do is sit on the couch and eat chocolate.
This is my way of saying
that this is a holiday letter. It’s just that the holiday may well be epiphany
or MLK day before you get this. Sitting on the couch with a pile of cards that
I will make nice individual notes to everyone, just not now, maybe this
weekend. So this part is impersonal.
In many ways, this year
has been a blessing. I was able to visit family more this year than most years.
I saw both my parents and siblings and my in-laws more than once. Mom and Dad
came in for my graduation, cumulating several years of work and we threw our
first big party at the house after three years as homeowners. The biggest
blessing, of course, was being asked to perform the ceremony at Mandi and
Matt’s wedding. Thinking of her face as I stood on that hill gives me great
joy.
The year has been a time
of loss as well. In the fall we lost my Grandma Mimi. I was lucky enough to be
able to get to see her in her last weeks before her passing. But that small
frail woman I said goodbye to was not how I’ll remember her. To me Mimi will
always be a giant, me looking up to her from waist high as I stand in the
kitchen, getting in her way while I try to help cook.
Other losses too. There
was that election. That one, but I also volunteered this summer into fall
trying to pass a referendum to get a bond passed to raise funds to build a new
library. I went door to door advocating for the cause. It lost, but it was a
new opportunity for me. I’m running for the library board in the spring. Here’s
hoping that this election goes a bit differently.
So it has been a time for
growth. I’ve been learning new things and meeting new people; taking on more
challenges at work. I graduated school, and as much as I want to go back I’m
holding off for now. Anita is the one that gets to back. She’s building human
capital and gaining signaling value by going back to school for a certificate
to bolster her job experience as a trainer. She’s still playing the guitar and
banjo and learning new songs. She remains simply amazing and becomes only more
so.
I’m not sure what 2017
will bring, but I look forward to more growth and meeting more new people.
We’re planning on taking a trip to Canada to see the Northern Lights and some
polar bears (fingers crossed I can get a passport). But I also can’t wait to
see all my old friends again.